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Bottom line: A good probate lead script is short, honest and built around questions, not a pitch. Say who you are and why you are calling in the first breath, ask who has authority over the estate, and end the call with one useful next step. If the person asks you not to call again, stop.
Most agents search for a probate lead script because the first call feels awkward. You are calling a family that just lost someone, about a house. The fix is not clever wording. It is a simple structure that respects the person on the other end and gets you the facts you need.
This is real estate education, not legal advice. Probate and calling rules vary, so confirm the details with your broker and the estate’s attorney.
Know who you are actually calling
Your conversation is with the personal representative (often called the executor when there is a will), not with every relative. Maine’s probate code, for example, says a person must be appointed, qualify and be issued “letters” before acquiring a personal representative’s powers, and that administration of an estate “is commenced by the issuance of letters.”[1]
That person also carries real duties. Maine’s code calls a personal representative “a fiduciary who shall observe the standards of care applicable to trustees,” and directs them to settle the estate as expeditiously and efficiently as is consistent with the estate’s best interests.[2]
You are talking to someone with a legal job to do; your script should help them do it.
Probate lead script, part one: who you are and why you called
Federal rules set the tone here. Under the Federal Trade Commission’s (FTC) Telemarketing Sales Rule (TSR), a telemarketer in an outbound sales call must disclose truthfully and promptly the identity of the seller and that the purpose of the call is to sell goods or services.[3] Even when you are not sure the rule reaches your call, the same habit builds trust.
A plain opener sounds like this:
“Hi, this is [name] with [brokerage]. I’m a real estate agent, and I’m calling about the property at [address] connected to the estate of [name]. I’m sorry for your loss. Is now an okay time for two minutes, or should I call back?”
Name, company and purpose come first, before any question about the house.
The middle: questions, not a pitch
Your job on call one is to learn, not to list. Good questions:
- “Has the court appointed you, or is that still in process?”
- “Is an attorney helping with the estate?”
- “Is anyone living in the house right now?”
- “Have the heirs talked about keeping it or selling it?”
- “What would be most helpful to you right now?”
Listen for what is missing: no appointment yet, an occupied house, relatives who disagree. Those answers tell you whether this is a listing next month, next year or never.
The person who asks the clearest questions usually gets the second call.
The close: one next step
Do not push for an appointment the family is not ready for. Offer something small and useful: a short checklist of what usually happens next, a value range once they want one, or a follow-up call after they meet with the attorney. Then confirm the best way and time to reach them.
End every call with a next step the other person agreed to, even if it is “call me in 60 days.”
The rules that protect you
Under the TSR, calling a person’s residence outside 8:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. local time at their location, without their prior consent, is an abusive practice. So is calling someone who has already said they do not want calls from or for that seller.[3] The FTC also says that if you are required to use the National Do Not Call Registry, you must synchronize your lists with it at least every 31 days.[4]
Scrub the list, call during allowed hours and write down every “please don’t call” the moment you hear it.
Where to go from here
A script only works when you understand the process behind it: who has authority, what the court requires, and how to talk with families without adding confusion. That is what the EPCAS (Elite Probate Client Acquisition System) course teaches. The Probate Lab works with agents and investors in all 50 states.
Sources
- Maine Revised Statutes, Title 18-C, §3-103, “Necessity of appointment for administration,” Maine Legislature. https://legislature.maine.gov/statutes/18-C/title18-Csec3-103.html
- Maine Revised Statutes, Title 18-C, §3-703, “General duties; relation and liability to persons interested in estate; standing to sue,” Maine Legislature. https://legislature.maine.gov/statutes/18-C/title18-Csec3-703.html
- Code of Federal Regulations, 16 CFR §310.4, “Abusive telemarketing acts or practices,” Electronic Code of Federal Regulations (eCFR). https://www.ecfr.gov/current/title-16/chapter-I/subchapter-C/part-310/section-310.4
- Federal Trade Commission, “Q&A for Telemarketers & Sellers About DNC Provisions in TSR.” https://www.ftc.gov/business-guidance/resources/qa-telemarketers-sellers-about-dnc-provisions-tsr-0
Every source above was checked against the original on October 12, 2026.
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